Posts Tagged ‘help my marriage’
Bad relationships gone good
August 20th, 2011 | 
Author: I was divorced at age 27 from a good man. Would you be surprised that despite having completed a Masters degree in Counseling Psychology, I knew next to nothing about Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Musings about Relationships, Relationships, Seven Deadly Habits | 
Tags: balance in marriage, Choice Theory, controlling behavior, controlling each other, controlling your spouse, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, deadly habits, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, William Glasser | 
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Stop psychoanalyzing me!
No one likes to be told they do something because of some particular reason. It’s great to read self-improvement books and to learn to Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Marriage, Relationships | Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, diagnosing your spouse, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, junior psychologist, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, stop labeling me, stop psychoanalyzing me | No Comments »
Win the argument, lose the relationship
Even if you are right, are you willing to risk winning the argument only to lose Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Conflict resolution, Marriage, Relationships | Tags: balance in marriage, being right in a relationship, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, the price of being right, win the argument and lose the relationship | No Comments »
Squirrel obstacle course; are you as persistent?
Do you have what it takes to create a lasting marriage? Do you give up at the first sign of difficulties? People who are “stubbornly Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Musings about Relationships, Problem solving, Relationships | Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, persistence in marriage, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, squirrel obstacle course and persistence, stubborn persistence in marriage | No Comments »
Recovering backseat driver
As I was learning Choice Theory, by Dr. William Glasser, I realized that I had a problem with self-control Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Seven Deadly Habits, Uncategorized | Tags: backseat driver, balance in marriage, controlling behavior, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, recovering backseat driver, recovering control freak, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California | No Comments »
Princess and the Pea: a Very Sensitive Girl
Do you remember the story of The Princess and the Pea? A prince wanted to marry a real princess. The way the queen mother determined if a particular young maiden was a real princess was to place a pea under 20 mattresses and the put 20 feather beds on top of the mattresses.
In the morning, the queen asked the princess how she Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Marriage, Relationships | Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, love advice, love tips, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coach in Huntington Beach CA, relationship coaching | No Comments »
Examine your thoughts; change your feelings
More about how your feelings are a result of your thoughts and not the other way around. Some people have a habit of “emotional thinking” which is Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Creative thinking | Tags: balance in marriage, change your thoughts and your feelings change, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, your thoughts create your feelings | No Comments »
Ruled by feelings? Change your thoughts!
Are you in charge of your feelings or are they in charge of you? Your feelings are created by your thoughts, so take a moment to figure out what you are Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Communication skills, Creative thinking, Uncategorized | Tags: balance in marriage, challenge your feelings, change your thoughts and change your feelings, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, ruled by feelings | No Comments »
I don’t feel like being on my best behavior!
Conflict comes from lack of self-control. Often you may not “feel like” being polite in your relationship. What consequences have you noticed as a result of letting your feelings rule your behavior? Read the rest of this entry »
Posted in Creative thinking, Marriage, Relationships, Self-control | Tags: balance in marriage, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, letting feelings control your behavior, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California, ruled by feelings | No Comments »
Fix My Spouse, Please!
If you want to help your relationship, look inward. The key to success is in your own behavior.
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Posted in Conflict resolution, Marriage, Problem solving, Relationships | Tags: balance in marriage, change my husband, change my wife, creating happily ever after, creating happiness in marriage, dealing with marriage problems, fix my husband, fix my marriage, give and take in marriage, help my marriage, how to fix my spouse, marriage advice, marriage harmony, marriage help, marriage solutions, Michelle Vasquez, relationship advice, relationship coaching, relationship coaching in Huntington Beach California | 1 Comment »
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